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Travelling with older parents

Choose two places a day and book one meal.

The principleTwo places a day, and a better trip

Japan is a good country to travel in with older parents, for one specific reason: a great many of the best views are reached by vehicle, ropeway or lift, and the country is set up for people who move slowly — benches, clean toilets, staff who help without being asked.

The mistake is the itinerary, not the country. Five places a day is a young person’s schedule. Two places, lunch sitting down between them, and a bath in the evening.

Book lunch, or eat at 11:30 and walk straight in.

The shape of a good day

Morning one place, arriving at opening time when it is empty and cool · 12:00 lunch, sitting down, unhurried · Afternoon one flat thing — a garden, a viewpoint with a car park, a museum · Evening a hot spring, and dinner brought to the room.

An inn that serves dinner in your room removes the last effort of the day, which is the one that matters most.

What to arrangePractical

Getting about

Trains
Station staff will bring a ramp and see you on and off. It is a normal request here — just ask at the gate
Newer trains
Low-floor. Older ones and some trams have steps
Taxis
Clean, safe, and doors often opened for you. Show the address on your phone
Luggage
Send it ahead. How that works
Lifts
Most stations have one; a few old ones do not.

Where it is easy

Viewpoints with car parks
Daikanbo in Kumamoto, the Hakone ropeway, Miho no Matsubara in Shizuoka
Gardens
Mostly flat, with benches
Ropeways
Hakodate, Hakone, Zao, Shin-Hotaka — all view, no climb
Hot springs
Ask for a room with its own bath if steps or shared bathing are a problem

Health

Medication
A pharmacy here cannot fill a foreign prescription — you would need to see a doctor in Japan first
Insurance
Essential, and keep every receipt
Serious
119 — and the ambulance is free

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